How To Turn Failure Into Success..

 We tend to perceive our actions as either failures or success. This is one reason why you may not see life as the learning opportunity it is. As soon as we see things as a failure, we take it personally (a worst state of mind). 

The learning opportunity gets lost in the fog of self-doubt & bad feeling. However being turned down or rejected or refused doesn’t mean you are incapable or bad. It simply gives you feedback how to do it better next time.

Infact, there is no such thing as failure, just feedback.

Failure is a step toward your ultimate success.  It’s a lesson.  A challenge. A chance.

Have a think about some of the things you would label as success & failures in your life. It doesn’t have to be a long list for you to realize that what you label as success or failure is personal to you; other people may label things differently. (Fortunately, I have a longer list of success even at this stage because I take my failure as the real feedback which let me learn how to it better next time & literally I learned a lot from those feedback). To achieve significant success in today's world, failure is not just a possibility. It's a requirement. We must see success and failure for what they truly are. They're not opposites, but instead opposite sides of the same coin.

Whenever You Experience a ‘failure’, bring to mind your view of yourself being successful.

Ø  How might this recent setback actually contribute to you being closer to where you wish to be?

Ø  What did you learn that will take you nearer to your goal?

This may require some imagination, as the ‘failure’ may seem like a terrible blow, taking you further away from your goal. However opportunity often comes from adversity,we just need to find it.

NOW IT’S YOUR TURN

Bad things happen. Most will contain an opportunity to learn, but it’s up to you to try & find it!
Don’t just Panic- look at your new situation & consider everything carefully.

Ask yourself if you’re holding onto a failure or disappointment in your life. Why are you hanging on to it?

Seek support from other people who know you and who you trust to give you gentle feedback—especially if the “failure” feels fresh, even after many years.

Decide how you will move forward and use what you’ve learned to create a new plan, to let the past go to make room in your life for your new dreams.

Try & look towards each obstacle you face regardless of how unfair it seem – as a challenge from which you can learn something. Then let yourself learn, the more you do this , the more you gain control of your life, & the easier it becomes to tackle the next problem down the line.'

Best of luck & now just think about success.