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There are a thousand definitions of beauty. And there are many degrees of each. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is sadness in beauty. Beauty can be ugly. It is a concept that has haunted poets, artists and academics for centuries.

Males are visual creatures. In their minds' eye, like the posters teenage boys hang on their bedroom walls, men have an inflated idea of beauty. But to see how he really finds beauty in his surroundings, look at the girl with whom he spends time and feels most comfortable. She is often the opposite of the bedroom poster, maybe a friends, sister, aunt or cousin. She is the one he enjoys being with most. To be able to laugh with someone, we must drop our guards. Beauty is to be free and to act naturally. Oddly, getting there can be difficult.

Today, messages and information are aimed at us in very new ways. It is happening faster than humans can adapt and evolve. Life is demanding more than we can give. In turn, you rely on text messages rather than physical conversation. The heart is missing in our lives and you must bring it back.

We judge the book by its cover. It's usually untrue and unwise, but we place a great weight of importance on the first impression. In truth, a first impression offers fast, mostly visual cues, to make an assumption of another. Physical appearance is the first thing we see and it becomes our Achilles heel. The first impression is always the most expensive.

It is expensive because of what we lose. The priority one sets on appearances in the physical realm is to deny oneself the quality and beauty of the spirit. If you choose to focus on the beauty within, you will receive the value of true communication with another. To ignore the essence of another is to deny your own humanity.

Beauty has always been costly. By the time you have been plucked, pinched and enhanced, you can easily spend a fortune on the latest product or the most popular nip and tuck. The pursuit of beauty can also deny nature. In the fevered race to erase a wrinkle, we try to stop time and the slow and inevitable progress of nature. It is a fight no human can win. Beauty can also be a sport or a goal. Can you be more beautiful than you already are? No. Sure, every car needs a fresh coat of paint and a few new pin stripes but the real, true beauty comes from within your chassis.

There is boldness in choice and people can easily recognize it in you. To choose beauty, determines that you have pondered the question, objectified the issues and made a choice. You have asked, "What will I project today? What will I put out into the world?" Then you choose and follow it through. Embracing victimhood is a way to lick your past wounds but it never yields any positive future-oriented gains. You lead by example. Choose beauty.

Look at a flower as you would look upon a work of art. Appreciate it. Enjoy it. Relax and just let it all in. Then look at yourself the same way. You are a perfect and unique creation of nature, just like a flower. This may be hard to do and you must persist through all of the negativity and voices in your head. Remember those voices do not speak truth. They are merely the echoes of insecurity and comic relief. Appreciation for beauty isn't forced. Beauty cannot be beaten into you. Beauty must be invited and it must flow. If you want to exhibit your true nature, all you can do is let go.

It is hard to let go. These days, with Life howling around us like a hurricane, we instinctively try to hang on for dear life. To be beautiful, to live in the flow, is a monumentally important task that requires only openness, desire and a few simple actions.

Silence is the key that unlocks the mystery. A quiet meditation. Say a prayer. Sit down and have a little chat with yourself. Open this door and you will be answered with your own beauty.

Do something that makes you happy. Let go and take the time for yourself. Something simple. Call a friend. Go to a movie. Get a massage. You do not need to spend a hundred dollars. Shop, but don't buy anything, at a flower shop. Bake a cake. Take a hike. Do something that is purposed for you. When this happens, your beauty will begin to show. Others will recognize it and be drawn to it. You have allowed your beauty to flow.

1. Rips
To save a ripped nail from completely breaking off, start by gently pulling up the nail at the tear. Then, slip a toothpick with one drop of nail glue underneath — try IBD 5-Second Professional Nail Glue ($2, sallybeauty.com) — and press down to bring the two sides together. Finally, file over your nail surface to get rid of stickiness, sugggests Nia Terezakis, M.D., a clinical professor of dermatology at Tulane University, in New Orleans.

2. Weakness
You may think a paint-on hardener is the way to go, but "no topical agents have been proven to strengthen nails," says Vic A. Narurkar, M.D., an assistant clinical professor of dermatology at UC Davis Medical School, in Sacramento, California. Plus, most purported "strengtheners" contain formaldehyde, which can irritate skin and, some experts theorize, make nails so hard that they become brittle and breakage-prone. Instead, take a daily supplement containing the vitamin biotin: There's convincing research, says Dr. Terezakis, that it will help maintain strong, healthy nails. Try Your Vitamins Healthy Hair, Skin & Nails ($14 for 50 capsules, procapslabs.com).

3. Splitting and peeling
"The cells on your nails grow in a slanted direction, from the cuticle to the tip, like the scales of a fish," says Dr. Terezakis. Pushing them in the wrong direction thins the protective top layers, causing the nail to fissure as it grows out. To remove the uppermost peeling layer, trim nails, then use a file to lightly buff the surface in one direction. To prevent future splitting, avoid anything that presses against your nail from the tip down (such as repeatedly reaching into your purse with the same hand). And, keep the area hydrated: After bathing, while skin is still damp, rub oil into and under nails to seal in moisture. Dry off, then top with a lotion containing alpha hydroxy acids to help normalize your cells' barrier layer.

4. Exposed skin
If your nail has completely ripped off below the skin line, don't attempt to fix it with fakes — putting glue that close to your skin can be irritating. Instead, suggests Dr. Terezakis, cut paper tape called Micropore ($7, drugstore.com) to the shape of another, similar-size nail; press on, hold for ten-to-20 seconds, and polish. It'll actually look like the real thing.

Ancient Babylonian men manicured and colored their nails using kohl, with different colors representing different classes. The upper echelons wore black while the lower classes wore green. They also created the world's first, and most lavish, manicure set — the tools were made from solid gold! Kelly Osbourne and her $250,000 manicurehave nothing on these guys.

2. The Ancient Egyptian's Scarlet Manicure, 1300 B.C. - 1st Century B.C.:
Cleopatra and Queen Nefertiti, pioneers of all things opulent, popularized the manicure by rubbing their hands in rich oils and staining their nails using henna. They believed that this signified their wealth and status. The bolder the color, the more power you had. Cleopatra preferred a blood red hue, while Nefertiti opted for ruby. We're going to go ahead and call red the official shade of sovereignty à la pyramids.

3. The Ming Dynasty's Man-icure, 1368–1644:
Like the Chinese royals who came before them, both male and female members of the Ming Dynasty had perfectly manicured, talon-like nails. To add a tint, they mixed together egg whites, wax, vegetable dyes, and other materials to create different color varnishes ranging from dark red to black.

4. The Roaring 1920s and 1930s:
As the automobile industry flourished in the '20s, women began to color their nails using high-gloss car paint. In 1932, Revlon launched a groundbreaking polish that used pigments instead of dyes and was available at drug stores. Flappers and silver screen actresses helped popularize the half moon technique, as well as the French manicure.